To get out of a routine, write 50 things to do on 50 pieces of paper and put them in a jar. Whenever you have time, pick out of the jar! Here are some sample things to do to get you started:

  1. Volunteer.

  2. Host a movie night.

  3. Go dancing.

  4. Go for a bike ride.

  5. Go on a hike.

  6. Play board games.

  7. Bake homemade bread.

  8. Teach yourselves to solve a Rubik’s Cube.

  9. Learn how to change your car’s oil.

  10. Meet your neighbors.

  11. Organize a potluck block party.

  12. Visit a museum or zoo.

  13. Seduce your partner.

  14. Build a blanket fort.

  15. Have a yard sale.

  16. Do a puzzle.

  17. Try meditation with an app like Headspace.

  18. Teach yourself a card trick.

  19. Write a letter to your future children.

  20. Learn a musical instrument.

  21. Take a long bath.

  22. Clean out a room in your home.

  23. Donate anything unwanted to charity.

  24. Babysit for a stressed-out parent (if you’re not already a stressed-out parent).

  25. Think about the next few birthdays of people close to you—go shopping.

  26. Hold a potluck.

  27. Host a picnic.

  28. Go on a hike.

  29. Check NextDoor to see if any neighbors need their dogs walked.

  30. Audition for a play.

  31. See if there are local classes you’d be interested in taking.

  32. Learn to juggle.

  33. Color.

  34. Do a face mask, paint your nails, or get a haircut.

  35. Compliment a stranger.

  36. Go swimming.

  37. Try a Meetup.

  38. Fly kites.

  39. Try a cuisine you’ve never tried before.

  40. Try cooking something you’ve never tried before.

  41. Rent a kayak or boat.

  42. Do an escape room.

  43. Go mini-golfing.

  44. Go fishing.

  45. Find the best chocolate chip cookie in town (do taste tests).

  46. Make s’mores (even if it’s over a stove).

  47. See if there are any local concerts.

  48. Take a road trip with no destination.

  49. Grow a vegetable or plant.

  50. Take a parent out.