How Not to Get Eaten by a Cat

Why the Way We Live Kills Relationships

After years of generally feeling the steady peck of anxiety every time her friendships didn't feel like they were at their most exciting, Neha Gajwani got bored of semi-satisfying relationships. She wanted to feel enthralled, appreciated, and comfortable in romantic and platonic interactions. She decided to investigate connection: what it is, why we lack it, and what happens inside our bodies when we don't have it. Weaving together her story and research, she finds valuable answers to a question we all face: how can we feel closer to our friends, partners, and family?

How Not to Get Eaten by a Cat thoughtfully explores uplifting and disappointing interactions. The author uses her own experiences, in-field experiments, and the wisdom of experts to help you learn:

  • The causes of heartache and how it affects our bodies

  • How a belief in soulmates can ruin a relationship

  • Why loneliness should be taken as seriously as cancer

  • Why the design of cities affects our relationships

  • The scientifically proven ways to most effectively connect with people

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